Summer Travel Memories

I always love the easy going, chill vibe of summer. Everyone is ready to relax and have a good time. But nothing inspires me and makes me feel more content than the crisp air of fall in New York. I just can't wait!! With Fall just a couple of days away, I thought I'd share with you a bit of my summer adventures.

The start of summer was just amazing. I got engaged in the most unexpected way with the love of my life on my favorite New York City Bridge, the Brooklyn Bridge. Although it was raining and cold for a June day it was perfect. That overall set the tone of my summer to one of happiness and positivity. Many changes are underway in my life and I am more than ready for them. Read more about my engagement story here http://msnycity.blogspot.com/2015_07_01_archive.html. Check out my engagement video here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NTW2KYeO6bo

Aside from all the love and support from family and friends that we received, I always like to squeeze in some time to either explore the city or go on traveling adventures.This summer, I didn't have a vacation planned so we took a few road trips.

First stop was Upstate, NY.
It's become a tradition for us to get away from the city during the first weekend of summer. We rent out a house upstate and enjoy the peace and quiet of the country side. The views of the mountains are breathtaking and nothing clears your mind quite like it.

Catskills, NY

This picture was taken by @Miss_NYCity

Next stop was Maryland.
My cousin was getting married so we spent the weekend there. Thanks to GoogleMaps, I was able to search for Washington, D.C. and it was only a half hour from where we were staying so we stopped there for the day. Washington, D.C. reminded me a lot of lower Manhattan but much bigger. All the historic buildings were gorgeous. Everything was within walking distance so you start one place and end up walking to the next place and it's just never ending walking. So if you are planning your trip there make sure you bring your sneakers or comfortable walking shoes. Our plan was just to see the White House and we ended up going to the Washington and Lincoln monument. Below are a few pictures.

       
                              The White House                          Lincoln Memorial Reflecting Pool                           Lincoln Memorial

                                                 Pictures taken by @Miss_NYCity

                           
                                         Lincoln Memorial               Washington Monument & Lincoln Reflecting Pool
                                                   
                                                  Pictures taken by @Miss_NYCity


Next stop was Pennsylvania.
I've been to several parts of Pennsylvania in the past but I've always wanted to go hiking. ALWAYS. I love nature and being in the outdoors and having looked on Pinterest I saw the beautiful sights of the Delaware Water Gap and it just motivated me to go and try it. My fiance and I decided we'd get a little mini NYC getaway. Ironically the Delaware Water Gap, is actually NOT in Delaware. It's part of the Delaware River that separates New Jersey and Pennsylvania so you can choose which side you'd like to see. We stayed on the side of Pennsylvania.

First, I'd like to say we weren't really prepared for the hike we were about to go on. I knew there'd be a lot of walking so I wore light sweats, sneakers, and a tank top. I figured we'd have a tour guide and that there would be different kinds of trails to go on. Obviously we would choose the easier one since we are new to this. I was prepared with water and the insect repellent spray for the woods. But nope, it was nothing like I thought. It was just my fiance and I in the woods. We were literally all alone. Nobody around but trees, bugs, and birds. You heard nothing but the cracking of twigs, the leaves and rocks beneath your shoes as you walked and the quiet of nature. As city people, we looked so out of place! LOL We had a map but had no real idea where we were going. Luckily we bumped into a few people who were familiar with the location and helped us out. There were marks on the trees that we had to follow in order to come and go. It was absolutely exhilarating, creepy, tiring, and fun! It was one of the best experiences I've had in a while. We hiked so high, I'm still shocked about it. The view with the fresh air was the best reward. This was the view from above.

Delaware Water Gap- Pennsylvania

Picture taken by @Miss_NYCity

I think taking breaks from life, going on vacation, traveling, or sightseeing in your own town is so important. It refreshes you, reminds you why you work so hard and often times makes you ready to work even harder. I love traveling, exploring, and trying new things. It opens your mind and makes you see things from a different perspective. Some people say "oh i don't have time or money to go on vacation." I don't want to hear those excuses! If you can sit in front of your tv for hours, or spend countless hours of your day on social media you can make time to travel. As far as money goes, I understand traveling can be expensive but road trips can be cheaper if you have a car. If you don't hop on a train! One day trips don't cost much and I assure you you wont regret it.

I'll leave you with this quote by Mark Twain:

Love and safe travels,
Miss_NYCity xoxo

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Sharing with you my Brooklyn Roots

It's not always easy to live in the present.

So often, we get caught up in the moments of the past, the worries of the future and forget that we are in the now. When we look back at the good and bad memories, that's really all they are...MEMORIES. We can't take them back, relive them, or rewind time. All we can do is remember.

Recently, I took a drive to Brooklyn to stop at a cafe that I used to go to when I was in college. I love reminiscing and looking back on life. Typically, I realize that all the worries of the past and all the stresses of the moment were really so minuscule I can hardly even remember them.

On my way to the cafe, I decided to drive by my old neighborhood where I grew up. I lived in Bushwick, Brooklyn for a small portion of my life. However, that small portion did really shape my personality and give me the drive and sass that I have today. It was a predominantly Puerto Rican neighborhood. You'd see the sneakers hanging off the electric wires as well as Puerto Rican flags. In the summer it was too hot to be in the apartment so everyone chilled outside on their stoop. My sister and I would make paper kites and try to fly them out of our gated windows. In the winter, we'd go out and make snow angels on the sidewalk since we had no backyard or front yard. We'd shop on the avenue for anything from clothes, shoes, to groceries. I'll always remember going there with my mother to get curtains for the house or little things she needed. Some people feel a sense of shame when they look back at how they lived and where they came from. Not me. I feel blessed to have come from that neighborhood and to have had the experiences I've had. Being an adult now, I appreciate the luxuries I have and feel humbled to see how hard my parents worked to give us a better life. When we moved out of Brooklyn to Queens, we lived in a better neighborhood but I will never forget my roots. And even now when I visit at my age, I can walk around there and feel like I'm home.

        

All pictures posted are property of @Miss_NYCity

Growing up in Bushwick was not always the best or easiest. There were people who did drugs, people who were up to no good (our house got robbed), and it wasn't the cleanest. You had to walk with an attitude to be respected and  speaking up for yourself was common. That's where I learned to be strong and not allow anyone or anything get in my way..and I didn't. I can't express to you how these life skills helped me get through so many other areas and challenges in my life.

All pictures posted are property of @Miss_NYCity

When I arrived at my old neighborhood, I couldn't believe how it's beginning to change. It's still recognizable but here and there you will notice cafes, little restaurants with outdoor seating, and renovated apartment complexes. On the windows of the house I lived in was a sign that read "NO BUY OUTS." The neighborhood is changing before everyone's eyes and yet some people are still so caught up on their past, their futures, that I'm not sure they realize what is happening. A part of me is excited for the changes of New York, the neighborhoods are cleaner and it's much more of a modern city. However, more parts of me are sad that my roots will soon just be just a memory.


The Brooklyn that I knew and grew up is changing so fast. I often wonder what it would be like for this new generation growing up in the city. It hardly looks the same and soon possibly, it won't feel the same. It won't feel like the home I knew and grew up. So in honor of that I decided to take a few pictures of my old neighborhood so that I can always look back on when I feel down, when I feel stressed, or when I just want to reminisce about my childhood Brooklyn days. The fact is, time stops for no one so always seize the day, make the best of your moments and take advantage of what's in front of you when it's in front of you because you just never know if it will be there tomorrow, in a few days or a few years!

With Love,
Miss_NYCity xoxo

A Brooklyn Bridge Proposal

It was Saturday, June 27, 2015.

The weather was unusual for Summer. It was cool and cloudy. I had on a long sleeved dress shirt with leggings and flip flops. Early in the day, I had plans to get a manicure and pedicure at a nearby salon. It was a typical day. My boyfriend and I had plans since the week prior to get something to eat and walk the Brooklyn Bridge. So after my manicure/pedicure, I went home paid some bills, had a light lunch, and started getting ready.

He said he'd be at my house around 3pm. I started getting ready and I was having a major girl moment. I had no idea what to wear. It was cold and it started to rain. I couldn't wear flip flops or flats because my feet would get all wet. I couldn't wear a dress because it was too cold. As I threw clothing around my room, trying to decide what I was going to wear, he calls me saying he's outside. I open the door for him and tell him I'll be done soon. I finally decided on jeans, a black shirt, and my black TOMS. No makeup, no care in the world. The weather was chilly so I brought along a cardigan and even a light jacket. I ran downstairs, grabbed an umbrella and we left. Ironically, it never occurred to me that my boyfriend was a bit overdressed for a rainy day, something I realized much later on. 

We headed out to Shake Shack for some burgers. As a couple, we can be simple or extravagant but most of the time we are just two very down to earth people who like to just spend time together. So a typical date night is getting something eat and finding somewhere to just chill. We parked and walked to Shake Shack in Brooklyn. We ordered and there was no where to sit. I was a bit annoyed about that and was a bit moody because of the rain. So I told him we can just eat in the car. We got in the car, ate and started talking. He kept saying so let's park by the bridge so we can walk it.  I was like, "What? You really still want to walk the bridge in this weather? We are going to get soaking wet." He insisted. I said "No, really. Out of all the days you really want to go today." He insisted. After a while I just gave in, but it took him about 20 minutes to get me out of the car. As we started the long walk over the bridge, I just kept asking him why and he kept saying trust me, we won't get wet, and how fun it will be. I kept reminding him we could turn around. I kept asking what we'd do on the other side and how I will need to stop by footlocker to buy a new pair of shoes. LOL! It was actually funny because I did not put together what was going on. The rain got heavier and the wind blew stronger and I was soaking wet. My pants, my shoes, everything. I couldn't believe it. We had one small umbrella so he was way more wet than me.

We reached the first halfway point and he finally said, I guess we could turn around now. I was so happy to head back! Then as we turned around, he pulled out a box, got on one knee and proposed. I was so surprised!!! I was in shock. Four tourists on bikes clapped and out of nowhere popped a videographer and photographer. It was not only a total surprise but one of the best surprises. I've always loved the Brooklyn Bridge and having that memory there will always be a highlight. The fact that it was in the rain added to the uniqueness of the day. Having the photographer and videographer there to capture the very special moment added to it all. 

Picture Taken By: David Gutierrez

All pictures posted are property of @Miss_NYCity

At first, I was not prepared to pose for pictures. I wasn't dressed for it, I didn't have any makeup or anything. But looking back, I loved it! It was natural and it was my now fiance and I in our element. Memories captured doing something we typically do, in our element. Rather than being overdressed and acting. Everything about it was so perfect and I wouldn't change anything.

If you'd like to see more pictures of my engagement check out and follow our photographer on Instagram @pixelperfectnyc

 If you'd like to see our engagement video check out the following link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NTW2KYeO6bo

xoxo,

Miss_NYCity

QUEENS

According to recent news, the borough of Queens was voted #1 top travel destination in the United States by Lonely Planet, a very popular travel publisher (www.lonelyplanet.com). For those unfamiliar with NY State here's a quick breakdown...in very simple terms, there's Upstate NY (which takes up the majority of NY State) and there are the 5 boroughs. The 5 boroughs are also considered NYC to New York natives and nearby states. NYC's five boroughs are Manhattan, Bronx, Brooklyn, Queens, and Staten Island.

Although I was raised in Brooklyn for my first few years, I consider myself a Queens Native because I was raised and spent a greater majority of my years living in this borough. New Yorker above everything but Queens native. I've mentioned in previous posts a few spots in Queens that are my favorites including shopping spots and views of the skyline, however I was recently shocked by the fact that Queens was voted #1 and honestly hoping that this borough remained a hidden gem.

So why is Queens so interesting all of a sudden?
Well with the cost of living getting increasingly high as the years go by, Manhattan is becoming almost in possible to live in, unless of course you are a celebrity, a millionaire, or are fortunate enough to have family that owned property there for years.

Queens is the perfect balance. It's right in the middle of everything. Your 20 minutes away from the city (Manhattan), your 20 minutes away from Long Island, depending on where you live, your 15-30 minute drive from parts of Brooklyn, the Bronx, and Staten Island (driving without traffic). Queens is also just very chill, because it's more residential, parking is easier and traffic within the borough it's self is usually manageable compared to Manhattan and Brookyln. The best part is if you want to go to the city or Brookyln you are really close by.

So what are the popular spots in Queens?
-Flushing Meadow Park: Flushing Meadow Park is located in Corona, Queens. Most people remember or identify it with the world globe. It is the largest park in Queens and although it is a nice park, it can get crowded and really deserves a lot more attention during summer months as far as cleaning and maintenance goes, but that's my opinion. It's still a beautiful park.

Nearby: Corona Lemon Ice King, featured on shows like the King of Queens. It's a popular spot in the summer for its' Italian ices. My favorite pizza spot it also nearby- Angelos Pizzeria.

-Long Island City: This area of Queens is know for its' water front stunning view of Manhattan's skyline. Whether you stop by during the day or at night, the view is breathtaking and unremarkable.When I was a teenager, this area of Queens was not well known. It was a little secret location only known by Queens natives. We'd go there to chill by the piers on a nice warm day or night. On the 4th of July we'd meet there to see the fireworks. It has changed completely. Now it's known for its' luxury condominiums and high rise buildings and restaurants. Definitely a perfect tourist spot if you want to chill, enjoy the view, and enjoy some good brunch!

Nearby: Spice (Thai Restaurant), Elaysi (Mexican Restaurant), Blend on the Water (Latin Fusion), Queensboro Bridge.

-Astoria: Astoria Queens is a busy town filled with nightlife, restaurants and additional city views. Parts of Astoria are waterfront. The Triboro AKA RFK Bridge is there and is one of the bridges that you are allowed to walk or bike.

Nearby: Don Coqui (Puerto Rican Cuisine/Latin Fusion) restaurant and nightlife, Steinway (shopping), Astoria Park, RFK Bridge.

Enjoy!

xoxo,
Miss_NYCity

Love in the City

It's hard to imagine that in a city like NYC, populated by over 8 million people, there is one person out there for you. But it's true and very much possible.

Love has a very interesting way of reaching your heart. It's usually when you least expect it, with someone you'd least suspect. Everything you said you wouldn't do or date ends up being who you are with and if it's meant to last it's usually for the best.

Although I'm private about my personal life, I thought I'd share my love story with you all. Among all the chaos and negativity that seems to be happening in the world, it's important to remember the good and believe in the good. Love is real and it does exist, as long as you believe in it and believe you deserve it.

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Autumn NYC

Every year when Fall roles around New Yorkers get excited! The humid summer air dies down, replaced by cool, crisp air. The leaves change from green to beautiful colors of red, orange, yellow, and brown. Many are even excited to replace their short sleeves and tank tops for hoodies and scarves. I am a big fan of Fall myself. I enjoy the weather and I also just love the Halloween season.

Last October, I gave you my top 5 list of things to do in the Fall here in the NY Tri-State area. I also shared with you my trip to Salem, MA and some other things I did. If you haven't read it, click the link for October under "Thoughts of a New Yorker". I promise you the article is still relevant and may offer some ideas if you are planning a trip into NYC or are a New Yorker and want to try something new.

This past weekend, I took a trip with my family Upstate, NY to do our usual traditional apple/pumpkin picking. Whether you have children or not, this is such a great experience. It's family friendly, dog friendly, and friend friendly! We decided to revisit the farm we went to last year called Stuarts Farm, located in Granite Springs. It was actually raining in the boroughs but it was cloudy Upstate. The weather was perfect, no mud, moist but not wet and the air was chilly as expected.

This farm allows for apple and pumpkin picking. They also have a store where they sell other products like honey, other vegetables like squash, and different kinds of pumpkins. Next to the store, is a bakery where you can find a number of freshly baked goods as well as snacks if you're hungry.

One of my favorite things about going to this particular farm is their apple cider donuts. O-M-G! As I've mentioned to you before, I love to eat, especially sweets! These apple cider donuts are baked fresh and usually come right out of the oven when you buy them. They are still warm when you bite into them and they are deliciously soft. I am telling you, this is a MUST have. Simply delicious.

Apple Cider Donuts @ Stuarts Farm, Upstate NY

All pictures posted were taken by @Miss_NYCity

Aside from the fun apple and pumpkin picking, there is a picnic area where you can rest, eat your snacks, and overall enjoy the fall ambiance. What you see is the colorful trees  changing colors and it's breathtaking.

Stuarts Farm View of Fall Foliage, Upstate NY

All pictures posted were taken by @Miss_NYCity

I am a city lady, I won't deny it however, I love going Upstate for a break from the noise to enjoy the quiet of nature.

How do you celebrate Fall in your town or here in NYC? Anything unique?
I love to hear from you!

Love,
Miss_NYCity

City Adventures

Oh NYC! How much I love you!

I'm the kind of person that craves success. I put passion into whatever I do and overall enjoy structure, stability, and planning ahead. However, when it's time to have a good time I'm quite the opposite. I prefer spontaneity, indecisiveness, and in general going with the flow.

A few weeks ago, my friend had celebrated her birthday. However, due to an unexpected thunderstorm, plans got canceled and I didn't end up going out. So we decided to go and celebrate yesterday. I wore skinny jeans, a tank top, sandals, and brought a leopard print cardigan just in case it got cold. It was a beautiful day! 80 degree weather, sunny, and a light breeze.

We settled for Brooklyn to get something to eat. Cobble Hill is another spot in Brooklyn that I absolutely adore. It's trendy and has such a Brooklyn vibe. There are lots of restaurants and shops on Court Street and Smith Street. The side streets are lined with tree covered Brownstone buildings. Simply gorgeous. We weren't sure where we were going to eat and we spotted Spice which is one of our favorite Thai restaurants. They are all around the city so if you haven't been, you definitely must try. I enjoyed a plate of Siamese Fried Rice and a pink lemonade. Delish! www.spicethainyc.com

Spice (Thai Restaurant)

Cobble Hill, Brooklyn

All Pictures Posted Taken By @Miss_NYCity

From there we planned on walking the Brooklyn Bridge into lower Manhattan. Unfortunately when we arrived in Dumbo it was super packed. Bumper to bumper traffic and street closures. I completely forgot that there was a free event, the Dumbo Dance Party which I actually retweeted a few weeks back. So looking for a parking spot was impossible. We were maneuvering around people, cars, bikes, and insanity. As we are looking for a parking spot, a bee decides to bless us with it's presence. Leaving me to have to double park and jump out all the while screaming and trying to stay calm. It was literally on my steering wheel.  I was all like BEE calm, but it wasn't happening, haha. Finally we found a spot in front of the subway and decided to head there by train.

Our first stop was the Loopy Doopy Rooftop Bar in the Conrad Hotel. This summer they were all the craze, for their booze ice pop drinks. Basically a liquor infused ice pop in a glass of Prosecco. They have about 5 flavors. I tried one and I was pleasantly surprised. It was perfect for a hot day. The rooftop itself was very small, I expected it to be larger and the view was nice but I do wish it was more spacious. Luckily we arrived early and it wasn't very crowded. We enjoyed our drinks and were able to sit and chat. Overall, this place is nice for a quick one stop drink and then you will want to move on to another spot, which we did. www.conradnewyork.com/loopydoopy

Loopy Doopy Rooftop Bar- Conrad Hotel

Battery Park, NYC

All Pictures Posted Taken By @Miss_NYCity

Next stop was the Meat Packing District to try out another rooftop bar. There are many rooftops there and it was early so we didn't need to be over dressed. We first tried Le Bain which is in The Standard Hotel but there was a line and we weren't in the mood to wait. So we headed to the Gansevoort Hotel. It's an upscale hotel and is well known for it's amazing view. It was early so we got a seat over looking the view and it was gorgeous. www.hotelgansevoort.com Definitely a date night spot if you go early, or you can always just go later for the party. After a drink and good conversation, we decided we were hungry again! We can eat! So we stopped for a quick slice at a local pizza shop further down in Chelsea.

Gansevoort Rooftop at The Gansevoort Hotel

MeatPacking District, NYC

All Pictures Posted Taken By @Miss_NYCity

We headed to the Dream Hotel afterwards to try our luck at PH-D Rooftop lounge but were unsuccessful. We missed the cutoff and they were only allowing room guests up until they transitioned to the night scene. So we chilled at the lounge area and enjoyed the music and drinks. I even spotted Tyson Beckford!

When we left, we were pleasantly surprised by fireworks down by the Chelsea Piers. Nobody knew the occasion and everyone was just standing in the street taking pictures and videos. We walked towards the High Line and got a front row view of the grand finale. It was gorgeous. We ended the night walking the high line, taking in the scene, and enjoying the music being played by random lounges nearby.

It was an adventure and we enjoyed every minute. We headed back to the train to get back to the car. I ended the night seeing a shooting star on the BQE and of course I made a wish! I know so girly.. I just love NYC. I feel super blessed to live in one of the greatest cities in the world! I'm so refreshed and ready for the work week!

XOXO,

Miss_NYCity

Top 10 Things New Yorkers Do While Commuting.

"Let me get a cup of cawfee."

Aside from the obvious accent, there are other things New Yorkers do that set them apart from people who are not originally from New York. New Yorkers are always commuting somewhere and usually are rushing, with that comes a lot of hilarious and strange behavior.

(1) The 'Go Fast then Slow' Walk: It's simple, every person who comes to New York eventually learns that "jay walking" (meaning you don't follow the walking traffic rules and cross whenever and wherever the hell you feel like it!) is common. It's illegal but not enforced. So New Yorkers have developed an interesting way to cross the street. Here's the scenario, you looked before  you crossed the middle of the street (where you're not supposed to) and everything was clear but then a car appears. You begin to jog a little because you feel bad being in his/her way but when you see the car getting closer and gradually slow down, you stop jogging and you walk the rest of the way across the street usually making the driver have to come to an almost complete stop. Rarely do you see someone commit to jogging or walking the whole way. I appreciate this walk over the person who just walks slow while the driver has the green light and then gives you that dirty look like "What are you gonna do?" I'm gonna let you walk but you better watch your walking and your attitude because there are people don't care. Take caution while you walk and let drivers have their turn!

(2)The Subway Nap: Ever notice while you're riding a subway there is always that one person knocked out on the train? Some people take a little cat nap and others take a full blown night cap. Well I've always been leery of this and I myself refuse to nap on the train for safety reasons. BUT I know plenty of family members and friends who allow the rhythm of the train to put them to sleep and miraculously they always wake up in time for their stop.

(3)The Dodge: As a driver or a walker you know how to navigate the streets of New York with one thing being your target ---WHEREVER THE HELL YOU NEED TO BE. So you've also mastered the art of "The Dodge." Dodging people, dodging cars, dodging puddles, dodging the infamous NY pidgeons that walk like New Yorkers, dodging bikes, dodging potholes, etc.

(4)The 'Do I Fit?': This applies to drivers and subway/bus riders. Finding a spot to sit or park your car is a rarity. Some people have no clue and others have mastered the art of parallel parking. I've been driving in NYC since I was a teen so I can say I've mastered this. But not everyone has, and if you haven't you really shouldn't try to fit in a spot you are not sure you fit in. I will not squeeze my car into a spot and scratch up another car in the process because I love my car and I respect other people's property but for YOU jerk offs who don't... well you know what you can do. Same goes for people on the train. You should know how big you are, if you don't fit in a seat don't squeeze yourself in making everyone around you miserable. It's not proper etiquette! We can always tell when there's a new driver or a driver from out of town on the road by the way they drive (slow) and the way they park.

(5)The Speedwalk: This is hilarious. A New Yorker can have a day off and still be speed walking like they are on a timed mission. You don't have anywhere to go but you're walking so fast you're sweating! Some people are chill but majority of New Yorkers walk and talk fast. I know I'm so guilty of this!

(6)The "Seen That Before": You can always tell a New Yorker from a tourist by the quick glance they give to something out of the ordinary. New Yorkers are exposed to a lot of things on a daily basis so rarely are we shocked when we see something that may be crazy to others. We may take a quick glance just to check what's going on but then we keep it moving. Tourists on the other hand, walk slow, take pics, stop, stare, etc. For others it's a culture shock, for us it's just a regular day.

(7)Avoiding Social Interactions: It's true people in New York don't say "good morning" unless they've known you. And by known you I mean, they have to see you at least 3 days out of the week straight for at least 3 weeks straight. I know as a female, I've experienced it all at some point while commuting. I've dealt with drunks on the train, people engaging in inappropriate sexual acts on the other side of the train while looking dead at me, and the whistles and comments about my appearance as I walk. So many annoying things!! In general I have my guard up and that comes with a face of attitude. It doesn't mean I have an attitude it means try me and you may get exactly what you were looking for...dependent on mood. One of two things may happen depending on (a)how disrespectful you are (b)how I'm feeling. On one day I may go lash out and on another day I may just ignore and roll my eyes. Depends on the day, depends on my mood. You don't like it, oh well. My priority is protecting myself first before being friendly with a stranger who may just be trying to take advantage. If you are new to New York you will develop this, it's an unspoken rule but it's the way you have to be to survive.

(8)The One Second Beep: There's something about New York City that is like no other and that is the rush of it all. People are in such a rush that if you do not move your car within 1 second of the light changing, someone will honk the horn at you. I know, this must be overwhelming and frustrating for you out of town drivers and new drivers but hey it's the way it works around here. So get moving!

(9) The Balancing Act: Ever notice while you are on the train or bus there are some people that can walk while the bus or train is in full motion, stop and go, and not even fall. I've seen people on the train who don't even hold on or lean. I'm too clumsy for that. I've also seen some hilarious things like people falling out of the train while leaning on the doors. Be safe out there!

(10)The "You're Not Allowed in my Lane": Quite annoying, I must admit. I think it's nice to share the road with other drivers but here's what I'm not gonna do. I am NOT going to let you into my lane if you've had your left signal blinker on for more than 5 seconds. Why? To me that signals you are (a)unpredictable (b) lost (c) searching your phone for directions (d) sleepy or (e) not paying attention. I want to avoid an accident so I will just try and get past you before letting you in front of me. So please, if you are switching lanes the way to do it in NYC is a quick signal and then move into the lane. Most NY drivers are very aware so we see you! Otherwise you will receive the unspoken chain reaction of drivers who will refuse to let you in.

Have you experienced any of this? Do you do this? I know I do!! Feel free to share any funny stories or opinions. I love hearing for you!

It's a New York thing.

Love,
Miss_NYCity

The Day New York City Changed Forever: My 9/11 Story

09/11/01

It was a beautiful September day. It was cool enough to tell that Fall was near but warm enough to still feel the last few hints of summer. The sun was so bright and shiny, with a big blue sky and those white puffy clouds you drew in first grade pictures. School had started the week before and everyone in public or private school was still getting adjusted to the back-to-school routine, new schedules, teachers, and classmates.

It was a Tuesday. I'll never forget it. I was in high school. Just like any other morning, I woke up, brushed my teeth, washed my face and fixed up my bed. I turned on the small box tv in my room and put on the news to see what the weather would be like that day. I went through my bureau searching for the perfect outfit out of the many choices I had, thanks to back-to-school shopping. My dad, an NYPD officer, let me know, I wouldn't be taking the bus today and we'd be getting breakfast before my first class. One thing I wasn't, as a teenager, was a morning person. I hated everything about having to get up soooo early for class. I didn't drink coffee then, so I had no energy to eat or talk. I just wanted to go back to bed, you know, typical teenage behavior. So I got in the car and the day begun.

We went to a local diner by my high school. I don't remember what I ordered, probably pancakes that I didn't eat. I wasn't into breakfast and couldn't really eat a big breakfast before school. I don't remember our conversation either, I just know that I probably contributed little to it [the conversation] due to my very teenage ways. Regardless, I always appreciated when my dad thought of me for breakfast. Even though my teenage-self didn't want to admit it or show it, it was great to spend time with my dad. After breakfast, he dropped me off in front of school, I gave him a kiss and went on with the day. Everything was normal, at least that was what we all thought.

First period was fine, when I went into my second period history class things changed fast. All of a sudden, a teacher came into the classroom to inform our teacher of something. It wasn't typical teacher gossip or new handouts. It was serious and we could all tell. Their expressions were serious and they spoke for a while. Finally, my teacher made the scariest announcement I have ever heard in my life..."the twin towers have fallen." You have to understand that at this time there was no social media (I know, hard to imagine), beepers had just begun to die out and people were getting into the use of cell phones. I had a cell phone, luckily, but not everyone did like they do now, so the news spread much slower than it does now. By the time we got the news, it was late and we knew very little about what was going on.

My teacher then went on to try to fix the TV so that we could see the news. He also mentioned that we were now living history. The TV wasn't working and he tried to use a metal hanger to get some sort of reception. We were all confused, some students were worried because they had family members who worked there. We didn't know what to do. There was an announcement on the loud speaker that briefly told us what happened and that the school was placed on lock down, no one was allowed to leave unless escorted by an adult or parent. We had so many questions, many of which adults had no answers to. Our teacher urged us to stay put until someone came to pick us up and let us know that it was possible that NY would be under martial law. It was so scary. Students were cutting class and leaving anyway. The next period, I tried calling my dad on my cell phone but no calls were going through. So I waited. Finally, my mother came to pick me up.

Heading home midday is typically fine in NYC. Very light traffic unless there is some kind of car accident or construction. On this day it was pure madness. The traffic was unbelievable. It was even worse than rush hour on a holiday weekend. Everyone was nervous, everyone was confused. You could literally feel the weight of it in the air. As we drove home, all you heard over the radio were updates about the attacks, and how there were other areas also affected. The gov't was urging all first responders to head to the scene including retired FDNY, police officers, paramedics, etc and as we drove on the highway all you saw were undercover police cars, ambulances, etc driving on the shoulder to get by, all heading the same way.

On the car ride home, my sister let us know that she had spoke to our father on the phone and he said he was heading to the scene and he would see us later. This was so scary. At home, our neighbors were outside talking about the events, asking questions, and in general trying to figure out what happened. Our next door neighbor, had just moved into the WTC towers the week before for work and we were all worried for her return.

I don't know what I did that day, but I know I was waiting for my father. The news was relaying the incidents and discussing what was happening. People literally walked across the bridges all the way home from Manhattan taking them more than 2-3 hours. Subways and buses were down in that area and shuttles were delayed picking the enormous mass of people trying to get home. The aftermath was horrible. Every channel covered the attacks. But what stood out to me the most was the weather. Such a beautiful sunny day and yet the Manhattan skyline was under the darkest cloud of smoke I had ever seen. The smoke lasted for days, weeks, possibly months. Buildings were covered in papers, soot, and wreckage. The horror stories were endless, everyone knew someone who was there, or worse. People came from miles away to help with the relief effort, and to this day body parts of people are still unidentified. One thing stood true that day, every American was a New Yorker. Amidst the horror was a unity among Americans especially New Yorkers.

Even the days, weeks, and months following the events were hard. I know every New Yorker was worried about another possible attack. Every New Yorker was worried for a family member or friend who had to travel anywhere in the city. No one would have ever thought or dreamed that something like this could actually happen here and that made anything possible. It drew us closer to family members and friends but also caused a lot of anxiety. I remember feeling sad every morning going to school thinking about what could "possibly" happen and feeling scared and worried for the people I knew. Others that day were not so lucky. They had to face the fact that their mother, father, uncle, aunt, cousin, sister, brother, was not coming home and never would. Sadly, life had to go on.

I know you are wondering about my father. Well I am blessed to say I was one of the lucky ones. My father arrived home extremely late that night. He didn't really want to talk about what he saw or experienced and I somehow could understand that. I was just so glad that he made it home. I prayed everyday for the families that lost loved ones. And although I did not experience their pain I sympathized with them knowing that I might have waited for my dad all night without him showing up.

To this day, 9/11 brings me tremendous sadness. Listening to the names of all the innocent lives that were lost due to an event of pure hate and evil enrages me. I don't consider the date an anniversary because to me, you celebrate an anniversary. I will never celebrate this day. To me, it is a a day of memorial. A day to stop, reflect and think of all those lives lost. It is a day that changed us forever. A day that changed NYC and America forever.

Freedom Tower, NYC

All pictures posted were taken by @Miss_NYCity

Seeing the Freedom Tower and memorial site all these years later, shows strength, perseverance, determination, and hope. We never want to move on and leave loved ones behind, and the "what-ifs" will be ever present, lingering in the back of our minds. However, we have had no choice but to move on. We have come along way. I don't ever think that anyone can do anything to fill the emptiness of losing loved ones. That is irreplaceable. However, we are a stronger, wiser New York!

I'm in my late 20s now and this day still is heavy for me. I did experience history and was old enough to understand it. It absolutely changed my life forever.

I've learned to not take life for granted, to live in the moment, and appreciate the special people in my life.

That being said, I'm now a morning person and I love breakfast.

**In Memory of all those lost on 9/11 including the passengers, pilots, flight attendants on hijacked flights, EMT/paramedics, fire fighters, police officers, and civilians here in NYC and in Washington. Also to the many military men and women who lost their lives to fight in the war. May you rest in peace forever and always.**

Always thankful to the paramedics, EMT, fire fighters, police officers, doctors, nurses, and other volunteers who helped in the aftermath working countless hours to clean up NYC and help those who were hurt. Your selflessness and heroism is and always will be appreciated.

Never Forget 09/11/01.

With Love,
Miss_NYCity

NYC Summer Memories

Heyyyyy!

I've been M.I.A! For real though, but I'm back not to worry.

Summer, summer, summertime. What's better then warm weather, BBQs, tan skin, bikinis, and drinks by the beach? NOTHING of course! I can't seem to find one complaint about this summer! Everything was perfect. The weather in NYC was so much cooler than usual. It was in the 80s by day and cool and breezy by night. Very little rain and very few humid days.

Williamsburg, NYC

All pictures posted were taken by @Miss_NYCity

I did my usual sightseeing and exploration and I stumbled upon a few new spots that I really enjoyed.

Catskills, NY: I spent a long weekend here to get away from the traffic and noisy Fourth of July in the boroughs. I'm not a fan of fireworks at all (personal story), so for me nothing is more annoying than listening to people scare the crap out of you with the fireworks they bought from other states. By the way it's illegal in NYC to have, purchase, or use fireworks. My dog hates it, I hate it, and this year we spent the weekend Upstate away from the noise. Even my dog came along. We rented a house up there, had a real bonfire, roasted marshmallows for smores. I loved the view of the mountains and the quiet sound of nature. It was so amazing. I even saw stars!!!

Brunch: Pranna & Punch. OMG! The reason why I have to workout consistently is because I love food too much! These two places are great.

• Pranna is located in the Gramercy area of Manhattan. I went to Pranna twice for a Sunday birthday gathering and it's just an amazing experience. It's brunch, so it's a fixed rate for food and unlimited drinks, like Mimosas, Bellinis, Screwdrivers, and Bloody Mary's. You eat first and then there is a live DJ. So there you are drinking and dancing at about 4pm and you are totally tipsy by 6pm, and once you get home your ready for bed! LOL! A great time. If you haven't done it go for it. It's perfect for birthdays and social events. Website: www.prannarestaurant.com

• Punch is a small low key restaurant located in the Flatiron district. The food is delicious and the drinks I had were perfect. I went with a friend and she enjoyed everything as well. Please if you are hungry or in the mood for brunch check this place out!!! Website: www.punchrestaurant.com

Snacks: As a lover of food, I have to say that it's surprising that I'm not overweight.

• Wafels&Dinges: For quite some time I've been interested in trying one of the food trucks and the one on my mental list was wafels&dinges. It had a belgium waffle with a scoop of vanilla ice cream, drizzled with chocolate syrup and topped with sugar powder. OMG! My mouth is watering all over again. It was seriously amazing. You can add any toppings you want and they have a variety of desserts, lunches, etc. Just please try it, you won't regret it. You can follow them on twitter @waffletruck to get an update on their locations around NYC. Website: www.wafelsanddinges.com

• Eataly: Also in the Flatiron District. There is no wondering why it's called Eataly! It's like hopping on a jet and landing in Italy. I intially went for their gelato but there was so much other things there as well. The best way I can describe it is it's like an Ikea for Italian food. The same way Ikea is separated by section is the way Eataly is organized. There is a wine/beer section, a meat section, a Nutella bar, a gelato bar, and then an area where you can eat and more. It was much bigger than I expected and everything looked, smelled, and tasted amazing. So if  you love Italy, Italian food or products definitely make a stop there. Website: www.eataly.com

Rooftop Bar/Lounges: I clearly love NYC! So I am always looking for new areas to take in the scene of the New York Skyline. Rooftop lounges have really gotten popular over the past couple of years.

• VistaSky Lounge [LIC, Queens]. It's a relatively new location in Long Island City, Queens. It's a rooftop and is actually located inside the Four Points Sheraton Hotel. It's a very small location compared to other places. We went on a Saturday to celebrate a birthday and it was really calm. The overall mood was chill and even though it was small it was never insanely crowded. People kind of drifted in and out for drinks. Some people stayed, some people left. It was a nice night and the view was definitely breathtaking. Website: www.vistany.com

Classes:

• Joe's Pro Shop [Flatiron District, NYC] It's a small coffee shop located in the Flatiron District. I took a coffee tasting class. I know, who knew they had coffee tasting classes? But really, in NYC they have everything! This class basically teaches you how to smell, taste, and identify different kinds of coffee. I am a big coffee fanatic. I can't go a day without a cup or two of coffee and I thought I should learn more so that I can talk about what I love so much. It was a basic class that cost $25 but I learned how to identify the kind of coffee that I prefer by smell, taste, etc. It was definitely an experience. If you like coffee or are looking for a new date idea with that special someone you should definitely try it. Then go have brunch or dinner in the area afterwards. Check out www.joenewyork.com for more information on classes. 

If you want to see pics or talk NYC, follow me on twitter @Miss_NyCity !

Love,

Miss_NYCity
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NYC! NYC! NYC! I'm back!

Spring has finally sprung! It's been a long winter!!! OMG! So much snow and so many other things going on, can you tell I have been tied up? Well thanks to a wonderful career that I am very proud of, I've been extremely busy. I have thought about posting here and there but to be honest I had little to say. The winter storms, that were literally about twice a week, kept me from being my usual social self. So I spent most of my time indoors. I'm happy to announce that it's officially over, Spring is here. It's in the 60s-70s for the past week so I think it's officially staying.

What's the first thing I did when the weather hit 60 degrees???? I had a drink with one of my favorite home girls and we talked about our upcoming trip out of NYC to much warmer weather. YES!
We caught up on all our "noise" as I call it. Noise is basically the things in life that come up, the things that are annoying but definitely bearable. The kind of daily things you have to deal with as an adult but you wish you could avoid altogether. The things that you just need to vent about and then keep it moving. We spent the day in Queens. Our first stop was Spice in LIC for a quick dinner, which is the most amazing Thai food. Delish!! From there, we went to Via Trenta a cute little Italian spot in Astoria for some wine. We capped the night with some NY pizza and a quick stop at Pio Pio in Jackson Heights for some Sangria.

I am very ready for the warm weather!! Of course I can't wait to share with you all the details both good and bad! When you work hard and you don't hurt anybody, you definitely deserve to reap all the rewards that come from it.

Can't wait!!

Love,
xoxo Miss_NYCity

Happy New Year!

It's the New Year and everyone has rounded up a bunch of resolutions, goals, and accomplishments. It's time for a fresh start!

As a person born with a goal list, I thrive off of accomplishments! It's engraved in my personality, it's part of who I am. I have always looked towards the future, imagined where I'd want to be, and worked on getting there. I am really, really good at this. Since I was young, I remember saying I am going to graduate college, make good money and live comfortably. Here I am with two degrees, a good job, a nice car, living pretty well. So I'd like to share with you my best tips on sticking to your goals/resolutions not just around this time of year but always!

1. Think about where you want to see yourself in 3 months, 6 months, 1 year, or 2 years. Write down exactly what you want to see changed and what you will do to get there. The timing is up to you. Every person is different. Some people need short time frames because they live more in the moment, while others (like myself) need longer time frames because we live more in the future. Treat this list like a promise to yourself for positive change.

2. Put your list in a place that won't get lost this way you can frequently check back and see how far you've come. A lot of people say they are going to do things but then forget what they say and then don't do it. That's why it's important to write it down. It serves as a reminder of what you promised yourself. Also when you check back to see what you've accomplished it's a bigger motivation. It's amazing to feel proud of yourself!

3. Your list CAN change! Sometimes we write down a list of 10 things we are going to do and then we realize it's too much. The fact is that we are human. It's impossible to be perfect and sometimes it's just easier to take baby steps. So if one of your goals is to go back to school, maybe instead of saying "I will enroll in school by next semester" you can say " I will visit 3 colleges/universities, get information about their programs by March." Small steps lead to completing the goal so just because you don't do the whole thing doesn't mean you aren't in the right direction.

4. Pay no attention to haters. No seriously, I know the word "haters" has become overkill through the years. People who don't have haters say they do and people who do say they don't care but they do. Whatever, the fact is SOME people do not want to see you doing better for yourself. Which is why I personally like to keep my goals to myself. If it's a promise you are making to yourself you really don't need to explain them to anyone else. But if you are the type of person that likes to share your ideas with others and they try to shoot you down, simply ignore and then never tell them any of your goals again. Rather than getting upset and telling them, use that energy to fuel yourself to prove them wrong. It works every time. Then later you can remind them how they didn't support you. BOOM!

5. Last but not least, STAY POSITIVE! There are always bumps in the road. There are always things that go wrong. There is always something that's going to come up. But really don't let that disappoint you or stop you from doing what you are going to do. Change for the better is difficult and it is a really positive thing. Don't let the little things get you down. Stay focused and you will be fine. Tune all the negativity out. It just makes room for more positive vibes.

Happy New Year!!

Love,
-Miss_NYCity

The City Life vs. The Other Life

So it's been a while since I've written.

What's been going on with me? I've been super busy with work so I had to put these posts on hold.

Recently I had a discussion, which turned into a debate, with someone very near and dear to my heart who feels that NYC is overrated and not at all what it seems to be. So I thought this would make a perfect interactive blog post.

As a proud New Yorker my position was of course on the side of NYC. I love New York, granted it isn't for everybody. Everybody has their own interests and tastes. However, I love the fast pace. I love the busy life and never feeling bored. I love that I can WALK to a corner store AKA "bodega" or deli and get something to eat at any time of the day. I love that there are always events some free and some that you have to pay for to keep you busy and entertained. I love that you can walk, bus it, subway it, if you don't want to drive. Everything is accessible and within arms reach. I love the trends, the neighborhoods in each and every borough. The diversity of the people, restaurants, cultures, etc. There is something for everyone here.

Yes, there are very exclusive high end areas of NYC which aren't for the average person. But on the other hand, there are just as many places for the average person. If you want to shop high end you can find it, if you want to shop low end you can find it.

On the more negative side, there is a lot of traffic. When you go certain places at certain times of day or year you can't avoid the crowd. It's difficult finding parking unless you are lucky enough to have a lot that reserves you a parking spot in your apartment building or a garage. Mortgage and rent are high and you are usually not getting what you pay for. So you get a smaller house and a higher mortgage, higher rent for a whole in the wall space. There is pollution and when it's summer it is the equivalent of living in an oven with an occasional sewer breeze. This is all true. And like Drake says "I get it, I get it."

But I personally feel it's all relative. In NYC, there is always work, ALWAYS! If you hustle you will find a job and make ends meet. Is it competitive? Yes! Is it easy? HELL NO!  If you have a career or a good business you can definitely make more than just ends meet. Sure there are bills but because the expense of NYC is higher you get paid more. Which is what makes me feel it is all relative. If you are already a NYorker born and raised, it's hard but much easier for you to adjust to the lifestyle than someone who comes from another state. The traffic won't change and neither will the crowd but for the most part I feel you can find an area that you like and do your thing. And I do believe what Frank Sinatra says, "If I can make it there, I can make it anywhere." It's because it is that hard to start but once you establish and stabilize yourself you can make it. My experience as a college graduate has been nothing but good. It was definitely challenging, I was very broke all through college but I made it!

So of course the city life isn't for everyone. It's busy and crowded. Some people just don't like it. I would rather take some stress and have everything accessible. I'll take the traffic over being bored. I'll take the fast pace over having to live in a state where I have to drive everywhere.

And like every New Yorker you get tired of it and then you go on vacation. A break from the craziness, relieve some stress, and then you go back home with plenty of RnR and you feel rejuvenated. I've traveled to many other great states and cities which are beautiful!!! The calm and quiet is nice. The fresh air is great! But  I always miss New York when I leave. For me it is home. But that's me. Some people hate it. They hate New York, they hate New Yorkers, they think we are rude. They think NYC smells. They hate the stress, the fast pace. EVERYTHING! I get it but I wouldn't trade it for any other place...but I would maybe take Cali as my second place home.

What do you think? Is it overrated? If you live out of NYC have you ever considered or wanted to move here? If not why? What is it about NYC that makes some of you want to come here so bad?

Let me know, I would love to here from you. I want to hear all of your opinions.

Love,
Miss_NYCity